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Greg Colossale posted a condolence
Saturday, December 18, 2021
Dear Momma
I think I need to use this forum so I can stay connected to you. I almost like that others who know you can see it. I want the world to always know how amazing I think you and my father are, and were in body as well. Im sorry for the suffering before you left Mom. I won’t ever really recover from what you felt, and all the worry and concern you carried. I was blinded by the storm of shock and pain. Never did I know all that you hid from me. But I’ve learned it all. And again, even while dying, you loved me….me, not your legacy, or your success, or your possessions.
Me.
And each and every day I feel the loss of you in ways I didn’t know existed. It happened with Dad too, but his lessons were taught. They were inside me. I stood aside his body for 6 hours after leaving left, and it took years to feel ok about losing him. I cannot ever be ok about losing you, because we know that you left unfinished. I want to tell you the most beautiful thing that happened sweet Momma. The moment they pronounced you, I fell into shock. I was with you every day for 2 years, and we discussed and knew the prognosis. But I hadn’t a clue that you would actually be gone. And when you left, I immediately realized that your body was just a vessel. Instantly, literally, instantly, I could hear and sense you all around. I ran out to the stars. And I looked up, and there you were. I garnered the same feeling from you as we’ve shared for decades. I ran back in and touched your life less body, and I knew right there and then that you were with me, in me, and aside me forever. Your body was meaningless to me, but I vowed to carry you. All that you shared with me was real and true. And the lessons you taught me through your honest and sweet actions have been trampled by those who fear it, and embraced by those who are brave enough to understand it. The power of love you showed so many was permanently tattooed on 7 young people. I tried to love the hurting, the savage, the lost, the violent, and more, but I don’t have your resolve. Unlike you, my father is in my blood too. And the injustice sent me reeling. The kids know I loved them. Despite the efforts, no one can remove what you taught me. I spend a lot of time in your happy place. And I’m listening to your advice more and more. I miss you so immensely that I realize the amount of love I have for you can actually feel crippling. I wonder if I’ll ever really be ok. You had a momma for 67 years or more, I wasn’t as lucky. My shoes are still not clean. The day I have clean shoes is the day I will have loved myself to the degree you loved me. One day. I swear. Please stay in my ear. Help my brothers. If you do anything, help them. And I will stop all the cycles and all the chaos that we spent years discussing.
I miss you.
I’ll always miss you.
And I’m so thankful fir all I witnessed, all you shared with me, and all the moments in my childhood that you saved my life and well being. I know. I know it all now Momma. And I will forever be indebted to you.
Stay in my ear. Come through my song. And tell Dad I’m so proud to be his son. Gods probably insecure that you’re nearby. Show em How it’s done.
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Bob colossale lit a candle
Wednesday, December 12, 2018
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Merry Christmas Mom. This is the first one without you in 48 years.
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Greg Colossale posted a condolence
Friday, July 6, 2018
Mom,
You made me into a warrior of light. I didn’t see it coming, but I can feel it in your absence. I will never stop helping people each day. And I will always accept people for who they are. If the world knew of your kindness, you’d be sainted. I will hear your voice in every book I read and I will hear your advice in each trial. If I had to do it all over again, I wouldn’t have changed a thing. I was lucky to be so tight with you. You were the greatest thing to ever happen to me. And as I do your bidding in your absence, I will have no fear. You were more brave than us boys, you were more caring than a convent, and you were more selfless than the Dailia Lama. I can’t beleive the gift you left me. I had no idea it’s value. I now can see it was by far the most cherished thing left behind for me to have. And I will keep it close as I have so many other things you gave me. Be gentle with yourself now. I will see you again one day.
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Michael Colossale posted a condolence
Sunday, June 24, 2018
A mother’s love is sacred, it’s precious and comforting. We may never experience the bond we share with our mother’s which makes them so important in our lives. I recall the story of a mountain of a man playing in the NFL describing what he would do to any man that layer hands on him. He instilled fear in the interviewer. They asked him if there was anyone who he would not unleash his furry on. He responded, my mom. He went on to say he was powerless when it came to his mom. I realized that he acknowledged how we all feel about our mothers. The greatest people in history have been quoted over and over in just how special mother’s are to them. I can’t agree more.
I always tried to be like her and I will never stop. The fact that I am writing is testament to her.
Thank you to all who shared in mom’s journey whether it was sixty years ago or in her last days.
Michael Colossale, Son
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Patty Gamelin posted a condolence
Saturday, June 23, 2018
Thank you Ginger for being a wonderful friend. I am going to miss you very much.
I love you and you will always be in my heart every day. My condolences to her family.
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Jim Elmasry posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 13, 2018
Dom, I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain and sorrow that you and your family must be going through, but know that your mother is no longer suffering the great pain she was enduring. I never had the opportunity to meet your mother but, knowing you, imagine that she was a wonderful woman. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family during this very difficult time.
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Paul & Paula Chamberland posted a condolence
Wednesday, June 13, 2018
Carmine and family, so sorry for your great loss, heaven has gained a beautiful angel who will be watching over you all with love. Keep your memories of her close in your hearts and she will always be with you, God Bless
The Chamberland Family ❤️
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Bob colossale lit a candle
Tuesday, June 12, 2018
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Mom you held my hands and guided my way all throughout life. From a premmie baby, throughout childhood and into adulthood you held on tight and showed me the right path. You always let me know everything was going to be ok.
A few years ago, Even though I noticed your grip getting weaker I had to let go because I had two little hands that now needed holding. As I walked with my little ones I looked back worried and asked you if I was doing the right thing by letting your hands go? You smiled and said “ Yes Bobby you are now a dad and it’s your job to hold their hands and guide them through life just as I did you. And as she has done my whole life, she made me feel like everything was going to be ok.
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sandra kopycinski gashgorian posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 12, 2018
My deepest sympathy to gingers family. I grew up with Ginger and have fond memories of her.
Sincerely, Sandra L. Kopycinski Gashgorian
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Scott Kirejczyk Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, June 12, 2018
Our thoughts and prayers are with you....God Bless.
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Kathy Herzog posted a condolence
Monday, June 11, 2018
Greg Colossale, My greatest sympathy to you for the loss of your mother. She sounds like she was one special woman. I stand up for her and for you like those who stood for Handel and the Alleluia Chorus. It is an sad feeling when both your parents have passed. Stand tall. Kathy Herzog .
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Lorraine Fulwiler posted a condolence
Monday, June 11, 2018
My heart goes out to all of Ginger's family. I was very young when we lived in Connecticut above Dominic, Ginger and Carmen but I have never forgotten her beautiful smile, her kindness and her gentle ways. She was a blessing to those around her and I know she will be missed. May God's grace comfort you all.
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JOAN AND AUSTIN MCGUIGAN posted a condolence
Monday, June 11, 2018
DEAR CARMINE, MICHAEL, BOBBY, DOMINIC AND GREG,
THE TENDER LIFETIME THOUGHTS OF YOUR MOTHER WAS A TESTAMENT TO HER LIFE AS A MOM AND AS A LOVING, GENEROUS AND CARING WOMAN TO THOSE WHO TOUCHED HER LIFE AND TOWARDS THOSE SHE NEVER KNEW. AUSTIN AND I ARE RECIPIENTS OF GINGER'S LOVE AND GOODNESS AND ARE VERY GRATEFUL THAT SHE HAS BEEN IN OUR LIVES. WE KNOW YOU WILL MISS HER DEARLY.
LOVE,
AUSTIN AND JOAN
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Joan and Austin McGuigan lit a candle
Monday, June 11, 2018
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GINGER WAS A LOVING EXAMPLE OF WHAT GOD PLANNED FOR ALL MOTHERS, FRIENDS, WIVES, SISTERS AND CHILDREN SHOULD BE. SHE LITE UP OUR FAMILY'S LIVES BY SHARING HERSELF, HER HOME AND FAMILY LEAVING US WITH MANY HAPPY MEMORIES OF THE COLOSSALES.
DOM, SHE'S COMING ---- PREPARE HER A FEAST!
LOVE,
JOAN AND AUSTIN MCGUIGAN
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Gail Colossale posted a condolence
Monday, June 11, 2018
The world has lost one of the most amazing human beings to have graced this life. She adored her boys and grandchildren and treated her daughter in laws like her own. She was the matriarch of the family! Her family always came first! She worked tirelessly and always put herself last. I had the privilege to have her there to help welcome the births of 3 of her grandsons; Sam, Harrison and Mason into this world. Our trip to Italy, MV and all our family gatherings which were many, are filled with happy memories. We would laugh at all our crazy times! What an amazing woman she was. I am Hoping my children will carry on her kindness and compassion. She made the world a better place. She will always be in our hearts! We love you. Gail Colossale
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Kristina DuMouchel -formerly Labieniec posted a condolence
Monday, June 11, 2018
My deepest condolences to your family. What a beautiful write-up in honor of Ginger. She was truly a lovely spirit here on earth. May your cherished memories of her ease your burden during this time of grief.
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Sebastian R Papa posted a condolence
Monday, June 11, 2018
So very sorry to read of your mothers passing. Ginger was a beautiful lady full of laughter and fun. I will always remember her kindness & thoughtfulness.
My thoughts and prayers are with the Colossale family. May she rest in peace.
God bless.
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Dave, Jackie, Spencer and Nate posted a symbolic gesture
Monday, June 11, 2018
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A ship sails and I stand watching til she fades on the horizon and someone at my side says, "She is gone."
Gone where? Gone from my sight, that is all. She is just as large now as when I last saw her. Her diminished size and loss from sight is in me, not in her.
And just at that moment, when someone at my side says she is gone, there are others who are watching her coming over the horizon and other voices take up the glad shout, "Here she comes!"
God's grace be with you all during this difficult time. Prayers to all who love her...xo
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Ginette Cruz lit a candle
Sunday, June 10, 2018
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Diane Franco lit a candle
Sunday, June 10, 2018
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May Virginia rest in the hands of our Savior Jesus Christ. May God heal your heart and know that you all are in our prayers. Greg, you know I always said your mom was the heart of your family and her love for her children was abundant. Sending much love to you all from Texas.
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Debi Kirk lit a candle
Sunday, June 10, 2018
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Ginger was a loving, caring and deeply devoted mother and will be in our thoughts and prayers. You are in my thoughts and prayers Carmine, Michael, Dominic, Bobby, and Greg. I wish I could be there with you all, but please accept my condolences. Love to you all!
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Sandra Wicklund Roche posted a condolence
Sunday, June 10, 2018
Our thoughts and prayers are for the whole Collossale Family. I have fond memories of family vacations in Westbrook and Clinton. One time, the Dads were home working and left the Moms to deal with all the children. It was night time and a telephone kept ringing in a locked closet. Both Ginger and Jean walked around with huge knives protecting us! Another adventure was when were at a cottage called 'Waters Edge', the one with the beach store across the street, we went out and came back after dark. What greeted us was one of those amazing skunks. Boy did we run FAST to the cottage! Such good times growing up with the Collossales'. Keep the memories! Mrs. Collossale will be missed!
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Maryann cianci posted a condolence
Sunday, June 10, 2018
Although I didn’t know ginger very well I was touched by her laughter and good humor. When a mama passes part of our history goes also. Please accept my deep sympathy. I will keep her in my daily prayers. Love to all. Maryann
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Dianna and John Orvis posted a condolence
Sunday, June 10, 2018
Ginger was a very special lady whom we enoyed her company when we visited with her at family functions. She loved her family dearly especially her grandchildren. We are so saddened and her family is in our prayers.
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Debi Kirk posted a condolence
Sunday, June 10, 2018
My sincere condolences to the entire Colossale family, with special thoughts and prayers to Carmine, Michael, Dominic, Bobby, and Greg. I recall wth fond memories, spending time at your house with all of you, including your mother and all the good times we had. Growing up in our neighborhood, Virginia always opened the house up to the neighborhood children, she was a beautiful individual. Please know that although I cannot be there, my thoughts and prayers are with you all during this time.
With love, Debi
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Sunday, June 10, 2018
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Sunday, June 10, 2018
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